壓力=危機、轉機、新契機
諮商心理師 姚珮華
我每天都跟時間在賽跑
我的心臟跳得像剛跑完三千公尺的耐力賽
工作量一直往上加,眼見著期限就要到了;還有好多工作等著我去做,可是我心裡著急得沒法做…結婚、生小孩、經濟壓力層層束縛,胸口好像有個大石壓得我喘不過氣。啊啊啊~~~我的壓力好大!
在生命過程中,我們會面臨很多的生活事件,例如考試、懷孕、工作負荷、轉換新工作、人際關係衝突、天災人禍、生離死別等等,這些都是壓力的來源,我們無法要求壓力不出現,它是生活的一部份,然而,因應的方式卻是我們可以選擇與決定的。
人在面對大大小小的壓力,各種反應都有,例如:有較多的行動策略(經驗、與人討論)、內外在支持與資源,到過度緊張引起焦慮、憂鬱,甚至影響生理實質上的變化,頭暈、心跳不規律、無法放鬆、不正常的飲食習慣等,沒有幫助的因應方式甚至扼殺我們原本有的能力與創意。
學習瞭解自己,不被壓力牽著過日子,我們可以讓壓力成為自己生活中不一樣的開始,繼而讓生命有不一樣的可能性被開展出來。
抒解壓力小錦囊:
Δ當壓力來時,讓自己慢一點,感覺自己面對壓力時的信念、想法為何?
Δ留意自己壓力反應(緊張、肩頸聳著、頻尿等),進行自我對話提醒自己放鬆
Δ將待完成的任務切成具體立即可行的小目標,完成小步驟的同時給予自己正向的回饋、鼓勵。
壓力來時我們都會想逃或裝作沒看見,有擔心、痛苦不是丟臉的事,唯有面對,我們才會有力量和新的可能性出來。
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淡水院區預約專線:02-28094661轉2179。
Dear Teacher:
回覆刪除In response to the training course as hold last Friday night, thanks for you via the
painting book again to let us fully understand that everyone is unique and should
accept his defects, if any. And should be proud of his own value.
It's true we are short of giving feedbacks on clients' emotion as expressed during the
discussion process; we just collected the information from our client instead.
Anyway, quite a lot of techniques have been retrained and obtained this time.
Your efforts are highly appreciated.
Best Regards
Robert Li
Dear teacher:
回覆刪除In addition to what I have mentioned in my earlier mail, the 角色扮演 with consultant,
client and observer sequentially also offered us what we are short of. Especially via
the cards with so many options for us to choose- the unique characteristics made us
to select what touched us. And we could say our stories specifically. we are really
impressed by your fully prepared work in advance.
Happy weekends.
Best Regards
Robert Li
Dear teacher:
回覆刪除Recently I have seen an issue regarding the 社會不安障害(published in
Japanese magazine, and with Chinese characters as the title). It's one
of the three most serious 精神官能症, including 憂鬱症and alcohol 依存症(
I suppose it's 酗酒)as it's mentioned. Please advise what equivalent
name of 社會不安障害 in Taiwan at your convenience. Because I
completely have no idea.
BR
Robert